Are You in the Process of Divorce?



Once you are in the process of your divorce or have already come out the other side, you are ready to begin your deeper healing so you can prevent becoming like many divorced individuals who never reclaims their lives after divorce only to be stuck in the past harboring anger and resentment.

If your body was filled with contaminants and toxic substances would you detox it or let it fester and hope for the best?

The emotional toll of divorce (as well as your marriage) leaves harmful residues that need to be cleansed from your mind and body. Without treatment leftover remnants from your past may dwindle over time, and continue to infiltrate your future in subtle yet detrimental ways. Research shows that these negative emotions can take a serious toll on one’s emotional and physical wellbeing, while getting in the way of living a happy, fulfilling life. The end of your marriage may not have been in your control, but whether you choose to move on from your divorce is completely up to you. The inability to fully recover from divorce is not an inevitability, it is a choice.

How Divorce Detox™ Will Work With You:

Your first appointment will include a thorough assessment of your current circumstances. We do this through the use of structured interview specifically designed for individuals divorcing. After the first appointment we will continue to meet with you 1-2 times per week with a minimum of 8 meetings. Our work is time-limited meaning we do not see open ended ongoing therapy as being productive. As a result, we will work with you to set goals and to meet them for the most effective and efficient results.

The probability of a first marriage ending in divorce within five years is 20 percent.
   After a decade, the chances of a divorce are 33 percent.
   As the number of marriages increases, so does the risk.
   By the third time around, about 73 percent will dissolve.
       (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.)

Top 10 Reasons Leading to / or Contributing to Divorce or Separation
1. Deterioration of the relationship due to poor communications
2. Different financial expectations or financial problems
3. A lack of commitment to the marriage. Oftentimes, when children arrive, couples put their relationship on hold and focus on the children, practically forgetting about their relationship.
4. A dramatic change in priorities
5. Mid-life crisis
6. Infidelity causes nearly 1/3 of all U.S. divorces and therefore is considered the most common reason for divorce
7. Failed expectations or unmet needs
8. Addictions and substance abuse
9. Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
10. Immaturity, lack of conflict resolution skills, inability to manage conflict

One of the hardest parts about divorce is actually making the decision to do it. Once this is determined you get to focus on yourself, your new life and garnering all the wisdom you deserve to receive from this incredibly hard life transition.